When you’re considering becoming a surrogate, you’re stepping into a world filled with hope, generosity, and life-changing impact. But as the surrogacy industry continues to grow, so do the unfortunate scams and unethical practices that target good-hearted women like you.
Here’s what every prospective surrogate should know about identifying and avoiding surrogacy scams.
(This blog is not intended for legal advice. Please consult with a qualified surrogacy attorney for legal advice.)
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Yes—Scams in Surrogacy Are Real
Most agencies and professionals in the surrogacy world are ethical and committed to safe, supportive journeys. But there are exceptions. We've seen cases where surrogates were left without compensation, were pressured into moving forward before they were ready, or discovered their agency lacked proper experience or transparency.
Whether it's a disreputable agency, a fake intended parent, or someone misusing your personal information, it’s important to know how to protect yourself.
Red Flags to Watch For
🚩 They ask for money upfront.
No surrogate should ever pay a fee to apply, get matched, or begin screening. Ethical agencies never charge surrogates—if someone is asking for money, walk away.
🚩 They make promises that sound too good to be true.
Unrealistic timelines, excessive compensation, or skipping medical or psychological screening are major red flags. A legitimate surrogacy journey involves a detailed, often months-long process.
🚩 They don’t require medical records or prior pregnancy documentation.
Every reputable agency and clinic will require proof of past healthy pregnancies and OB/GYN records. If no one asks for those—be concerned.
🚩 They want you to sign contracts with parents immediately.
No surrogate should be pressured to sign a contract before understanding the legal, emotional, and medical responsibilities involved. You deserve time and legal guidance.
🚩 They avoid video calls or won’t provide agency credentials.
If someone isn’t willing to share their physical location, license, or full name, or refuses to speak with you face-to-face, it could be a scam.
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How to Protect Yourself
✅ Research the agency.
Google their name along with “reviews” or “complaints.” Check their website. See how long they’ve been in business and if they list real staff with bios.
✅ Ask questions—and expect honest answers.
A trustworthy agency will welcome your questions and never rush your decisions. Ask about the matching process, compensation, legal steps, and who supports you along the way.
✅ Trust your instincts.
If something feels off, it probably is. Don’t be afraid to pause or walk away.
✅ Work with known professionals.
Surrogacy Mentor partners with top agencies that follow ethical standards. We’ll only connect you with vetted, reputable agencies that value you.
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What to Do If You Suspect a Scam
If you think you’ve encountered a scam, stop communication immediately and report it. You can:
Contact SEEDS (The Society for Ethics in Egg Donation and Surrogacy)
File a complaint with the Better Business Bureau
Reach out to Surrogacy Mentor and we can help guide your next steps
Final Thoughts
Becoming a surrogate is an extraordinary gift—but it should never come at the cost of your safety or trust. With the right information and support, you can move forward with confidence and clarity.
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