Why Surrogates Should Avoid Traveling Alone for Appointments

Beginning a surrogacy journey comes with many exciting milestones—medical screenings, fertility treatments, and pregnancy check-ins. While these appointments are an essential part of the process, many surrogates wonder: Should I travel alone? At Surrogacy Mentor, we strongly recommend that surrogates avoid traveling to appointments alone whenever possible. Here’s why having support matters.

Emotional Support

Surrogacy involves not only medical procedures but also emotional ups and downs. Having someone accompany you provides comfort, reassurance, and encouragement, especially during big milestones like the embryo transfer or ultrasounds. Even routine appointments can feel less stressful when you’re not alone.

Practical Assistance

From navigating airports or busy city traffic to managing hotel check-ins and meals, traveling with a companion makes logistics much easier. Many surrogates also find that having someone with them allows them to rest more, especially after a procedure where they may be groggy, tired, or on restrictions.

Safety Considerations

Safety should always be a top priority. Appointments often require early morning or late evening travel, and certain procedures—such as medical screenings or transfers—may leave you physically uncomfortable afterward. Having a trusted companion ensures that you aren’t driving long distances or flying home without support.

Building Stronger Support Systems

Inviting a friend, partner, or family member along can also strengthen your own support system. It helps your loved ones feel more connected to your journey and gives them insight into the surrogacy process firsthand. This can be invaluable as your pregnancy progresses and you continue to lean on them for encouragement.

Coordinating with Intended Parents

In some cases, intended parents may also want to accompany you to important appointments. This can be a wonderful opportunity to build your relationship, share milestones, and foster a sense of teamwork. Traveling with others creates a safer, more supported experience for everyone involved.

Final Thoughts

While it may be tempting to travel alone to save time or keep things simple, surrogates should prioritize safety, comfort, and emotional well-being by bringing someone along. At Surrogacy Mentor, we guide surrogates every step of the way and help ensure you feel supported from start to finish.